CLAIM : Facebook Ruins Relationships

     The Author Sydney Lupkin, writing for ABC News on May 24, 2012 states that Facebook, as well as other social media sites are responsible for a growing number of divorces and break ups in the United States. She claims that growing numbers of people, across all age spans blame social media for at least some part of the dissolution of their partnerships. Lupkin writes, that according to Divorce Online, an online resource for information pertaining to divorce, “A third of all divorce filings in 2011 contained the word “Facebook.” Lupkin also writes, that according to the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, also a divorce information resource, “more than 80 percent of U.S. Divorce attorneys say social networking in divorce proceedings is on the rise.” Lupkin states that by 2011, according to the AAML, in the three years prior, the divorce filings containing the word “Facebook” have risen from 20% to 33%. Almost all of these filings contained the mentioning of inappropriate messages to Facebook “friends” as being a catalyst for the ending of the relationships.

      But there is another side to this debate. The side that claims that Facebook and other social media sites have no bearing on whether or not a couple's partnership ends in divorce or breaking up. According to a Wall street Journal article, the numbers of at least the Divorce Online website, referenced by Lupkin are false. The WSJ article explains that Mark Keenan, managing director at the British based, Divorce-Online (which allows British citizens to file, at a low cost, divorces that are being uncontested) was responsible for circulating the 1 in 5 number. According to the WSJ article, “After determining that the word "Facebook" appeared in 989 of the company's 5,000 or so most recent divorce petitions, he had Divorce-Online issue a news release in December 2009 stating "Facebook is bad for your marriage”.” The WSJ article again expounds, “Mr. Keenan acknowledges that his company's clients aren't necessarily representative of all divorces, and he adds that his firm never claimed that Facebook actually causes 20% of divorces. "It was a very unscientific survey," Mr. Keenan says.”

    
     There are some major flaws in Lupkin's article, not only does it seem that Lupkin's article is using either unsubstantiated evidence, as well as evidence that may have some validity but is poorly researched and outdated. It is also possible that she is citing a British source. The wall Street journal article claims that the 1-5 number originated from a british based company, if this is true then its possible Lupkin is using information that is not valid for American statistics. Though when doing an internet search of the Divorce Online(Divorce-Online) website, with or without a hyphen, the results lead to what appears to be an American based website, though a uk version of Divorce Online does exist. It is unclear which "Divorce Online" website she is referencing in her article, as she has no links or works cited. When doing a simple search on the Amercian version of Divorce Online none of the statistics or references to back up her claim can be found. This lends itself as further evidence backing up the claim of the Wall Street Journal Article, claiming the 1 in 5 statistic was started by the British company. This clarity issue is a huge drawback to her argument. When doing a simple search on the AAML website as well, I was unable to find any of the evidence or statistics used or the actual articles themselves that Lupkin eludes to. 

       According to the Wall Street Journal article, an American publication, “both the marriage and divorce rate in the U.S. have declined as Internet usage has risen, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's National Center for Health Statistics.” Though Lupkin did a poor job in identifying reliable sources to back up her claims,  I am still inclined to lean towards the side of the possibility of social networking sites being a catalyst in some cases for breakups and divorce, as I have personal experience. Though the statistics reflect differently the subjective nature of the debate cannot be overlooked or discounted.

5 TRENDS AND 5 FADS

HERE ARE 5 TRENDS AND 5 FADS THAT I SEE IN MY EVERYDAY LIFE.

TRENDS

TREND 1.) TATTOOS

     Tattoos are one of the biggest trends this day in age.Tattoos started out as what I would consider a fad. I would say starting in the late 90”s is when I first started to notice the “boom” of people starting to get tattoos on a regular basis. I would say that the two groups that probably had the most to do with the explosion of tattoo's popularity are bikers and rockstars. The reason is simple, people like to emulate what they will probably never have a chance to be. They want to pretend they are the 1%'er biker, rasing hell in the streets of a small quaint town, or pretend that they are ROCKSTAR on stage and singing to thousands of people. Either way just the sheer volume of tattoos being applied to the entire population of the world currently, makes it a definite trend that has been growing in popularity for years and may never end. This idea is supported by this NewYork Times article which states that, "A report by the Food and Drug Administration estimated that as many as 45 million Americans have tattoos. The report based the number on the finding by a Harris Interactive Poll in 2003 that 16 percent of all adults and 36 percent of people 25 to 29 had at least one tattoo."

TREND 2.) UNDERAGE DRINKING

     The second trend that I identify with even on a personal basis is underage drinking and drugs. Though I have never done any drugs, beer was my buddy even at the age of 18. I do not think that I am alone on this either. It used to be that when I was that age everyone did it. Though obviously very illegal to consume alcohol underage, I believe most “kids” then and now justify it as not the most illegal thing you can do. Meaning that say at the age of 18, in 3 years what is illegal now wont be then. In the laws eyes these young adults are committing a crime, but to them they are just “practicing” for the life they will have in a few years I guess. Honestly looking back I can say that I wish I never would have picked up my first beer at no matter what age, because all it did was detour my life's greater ambitions and goals, by doing something I thought was the “in” or "cool" thing. Unfortuantely this is also a trend because more and more kids every single day make the choice to pop the top on an addicting substance that is not very easy to quit. And when people can't quit something the trend grows. A fact check of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention website backs up this claim, by stating that, "Alcohol use by persons under age 21 years is a major public health problem. Alcohol is the most commonly used and abused drug among youth in the United States, more than tobacco and illicit drugs, and is responsible for more than 4,700 annual deaths among underage youth. Although drinking by persons under the age of 21 is illegal, people aged 12 to 20 years drink 11% of all alcohol consumed in the United States. More than 90% of this alcohol is consumed in the form of binge drinks."

TREND 3.) UNEMPLOYMENT

     The next trend that I can identify with is unemployment. Now some people may disagree with me on this classification as a trend. But to me the definition of a trend is something comes into existence and affects entire cultures. Unlike a fad that leaves no remnant once its gone, this trend of current unemployment in the United States as well as the rest of the world will be seen and felt for many years to come. Unemployment and under-employment are also nothing new as we in the “civilized western world” have gone through many periods of economic tribulations. I believe the current unemployment crisis in the U.S. lies in the circularity of our type of economy, as we are largely consumerists now as opposed to a manufacturing country as in times past. We cannot buy goods if we don’t have a job that gives us the money to buy them, and the person who's job it is to sell us those goods won't have a job to sell us the goods, because there are not enough customers. Therefore the vicious circle can continue unabated. I will not get into politics here. But just suffice it to say that I have recently seen a statistic that states that 50% of recent bachelor degree or higher college graduates cannot find employment in their field of study or at all for that matter, causing some to even move back in with their parents after school. Just this statistic alone and the sheer volume of college graduates annually, will unfortunately make this a trend that will be seen for years to come. According the the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, around October 2008 the rate of unemployment began to rise, and it has not seen the levels prior to this rise since. From a purely objective, statistical point of view. the chart diagram on the BLS website speaks volumes for itself.

TREND 4.) ONLINE DATING

According to statisticbrain.com, the annual revenue for the online dating industry is $1.049 Billion. The days of meeting potential spouses, girlfriends/boyfriends, "friends" through the normal conventional means of yesteryear, seem to be indeed a thing of that yesteryear past. Now instead of the potentially awkward "pick up" lines divied out by the bravest, or most intoxicated, some people choose the route of narrowing down potential candidates by similar interests, age range, and a bunch of other ways in an effort to cut down on wasted time in this "right now" world we have created for ourselves. According to statisticbrain.com, "there are 54 million single people in the U.S., 40 million people have tried online dating, with the top 2 Online Dating websites of eHarmony.com, and Match.com, claiming 20 million for eHarmony, and 15 million match.com members respectively. That is a little over 10% of the U.S. population being active members of online dating sites, and these figures only take into account the 2 largest sites. Just these staggering numbers alone make online dating a definite trend.

TREND 5.) REALITY TV SHOWS

     Reality tv shows. Unfortunately, sometimes, unbeknownst to these "contestants" they are being chosen for a show strictly for their shock value and for needed ratings for the producers. The reason that reality tv is such a trend is because humans in a sick way, sometimes love to watch carnage and destruction, it somehow makes us feel better about our lives if we see a human train wreck happening before our eyes on the television set. (Did you know most people watch a NASCAR race just so they can see the big wreck?) These “contestants” then somehow try to morph their 15 minutes of shame into something long term to feed their narcissistic egos. But the unfortunate part is “we,” and I use that term loosely because I don't not watch these types of shows, feed the need for more and more of these shows with our veracious appetite to see people ruin their lives. Again, just literally to boost our own egos and say well, “at least my life isn't that bad” so until our behavior as viewers changes – reality tv probably wont – then this trend is just going continue to gro and grow. According to http://www.trendreports.com/research/reality-television, "Reality television series began gaining extreme popularity in the 1990s with shows like Survivor. Almost twenty years later reality shows are still an integral part of pop culture, with game shows and dance reality shows at the forefront of television programming. Consumers are even starting reality TV blog sites to stay up-to-date and keep others informed on shows like The Hills, and are extremely active in sharing this content online."



 

FADS

FADS 1.) FASHION/SKINNY JEANS

     Well here it is, the first fad, Fashion. This is a hard one to even grasp sometimes because something can go from “hot/in” to overnight now its not. One of these trends I see currently and it honestly makes me giggle like a little school girl when I see it is, Dudes wearing skinny jeans. Now I'm not talking about jeans that maybe are designed to accentuate a particular area of a persons lower body. I am talking about the jeans that are darn near “painted” on and their 12 year old sister is upset because older brother jimmy stole her favorite pants so he can fit in at school. I definitely have no idea in the world why these jeans came into existence. I do know that the first time I ever saw them utilized was in the Bmx bicycle riding culture. I do not know how long it will take for this finite fashion fiasco to fizzle out, but I'm counting the days until this fad is a distant memory. Though it is difficult to label this as a defintite fad, because frankly we are in the midst of the boom of skinny jeans. According to http://fashion.about.com/od/latesttrends/a/trendover.htm, the final ending to a "trend" as they put it occurs when, " The trend becomes saturated in the market, usually at very low prices. With trendy items like a must-have designer handbag, the item becomes widely available as a knock-off." For the definition in this class, a trend has a long lasting, changing effect on the populus, while a fad goes away without much remembrance of it afterwards, such as the "Spandex and leg warmer combo of the 80's" that was very popular but now a distant memory to those who lived, the big hair days.

FADS 2.) VEGAN DIET

     Who doesn't like a medium rare ribeye steak? Vegans! Thats who. For some reason these people are for the time being growing steadily every year. The reason for this diet usually falls in to two main subcategories according to the people I have talked to. 1.) Are the people who are going to save the world by converting one non-vegan or saving one cow, and pig at a time. Sort of like the people who say, “if everyone in the world doesn't buy gasoline on just one day, then they can bankrupt the oil companies” these people feel that if they can convert people to their lifestyle then we can save all of the meat animals from slaughter. Unfortunately this idealism falls short because people have been eating animals for thousands of years. It is my contention that it is more wasteful to let the already butchered animal waste away in some styrofaom/plastic wrapped container at the grocery store, than to be thankful for this animals sacrifice for human nourishment. 2.) Are the super health conscious group the ones that monitor everything that they intake into their bodies, possibly for fitness reasons, food allergy or unjustifiable lifestyle choice. Either way this fad is destined to die out soon enough, after all we are humans in the end, and at any event, in a worst case scenario any one of these people would eat the guts out of a dead caribou to save themselves and survive. Now for the supporting stats. According to http://www.vegsource.com/news/2011/12/new-poll----there-are-more-vegans-than-vegetarians-and-other-data.html, there was a poll conducted in 2011 by the Vegitarian Research Group that showed a rise vegitarians and vegans in the United States. The poll suggests that as of the poll, 3% of the population is Vegan, while 2% claim to be vegetarian. The difference between vegetarian and vegan being that as well as not consuming meat as the vegetarians, the vegans also do not consume dairy or eggs. It should be noted that this poll involved 1,010 adults ages 18+. It was conducted as a phone poll which are known in some cases to not be the most accurate. That said taking even the higher 3% number, means that only 30.3 people out of the 1000 people polled considered themselves to be vegan. With the U.S. national population of approx. 330,000,000 million people, using the same data would put the nationwide average of vegans at almost 10 million people. a good chunk but not nearly enough people to consider this eating type as a trend as of yet, these statistics also don't take into account sampling errors in the polling which can be as much as 3 percentage points, as well as the way questions are worded and unfortuantely people who don't understand the complex completely and may unknowingly give misleading information eg. that being a vegan means no eggs or dairy, but a cold glass of milk on a hot summer day is ok, if the other 364 days of the year. they dont drink milk at all. These possibilities create flawed data. my favorite annecdotal evidence of this is the old lady who when asked if she has high blood pressure?, she tells the EMT no, then upon finding blood pressure medication later on and requestioning the lady, she states, "well, I don't have high blood pressure because I take those pills that make it normal"

FADS 3.) THE DUCKFACE

This fad is a mostly girl thing, or maybe guys doing it that are making fun of girls. Either way it is a pretty unnatural facial expression that has been seen recently. It is where a girl(or guy) will take a picture, usually of themselves. while making an unattractive facial expression. According to ohinternet.com, "Duckface is the common term for a hideous facial expression, popularly used in self-taken photographs, in which the lips are pursed and flattened, usually accompanied by widened eyes which rarely look directly at the camera. It is mainly used by the subject to show how cute and "random" they are." I have already seen that this fad is on its decline with other websites such as antiduckface.com leading the charge against informing these people how they are perceived by most people.

FADS 4.) PLANKING

   STIFF, is the new cool. Kids all around the world have caught onto this fad. It involves lying in the prone position, with hands to the sides in a variety of places and sometime precarious positions. Here is the ultimate reason why this will never move past the threshold of fad. This fad was started in Austrailia and has now reached nearly the entire world. Unfortunately Kids are dying! As msnbc.msn.com reports, "A 20-year-old man plunged to his death after "planking" on a seventh-story balcony in Brisbane, Australia, the Brisbane Times reported Sunday." As a result of the death. The police are cracking down on plankers. The report states, "On Friday, the Herald Sun of Melbourne, Australia, reported that police won't tolerate the dangerous stunts : Penalties range from fines to jail in extreme cases." "Clearly, conduct that threatens public safety will not and should not be tolerated," a Victoria state police spokeswoman said. Being as planking originated in Austrailia and Austrailian authorities are the ones putting the brakes on kids attempting these stunts. It should only be a matter of time before new rules are put into place all over the world as well, that will at least stop the prevelance of planking.

FADS 5.) COLORING HAIR WEIRD COLORS

     Now this one is just comical to me most of the time. I did do the bleach blonde hair, and then to be the anti-everything I went to the jet black hair, yeah! Cause I was different of course! The difference between these natural types of hair dying that most people pursue throughout life and these off the wall hair colors that are seen recently are the difference between fad and trend. The bright pink, neon green, and electric blue hair dyes are a fad that I don't see lasting much longer. The people that I have come into contact with actually might rock that color in their hair with the utmost pride, but for only temporarily. I think they realize pretty quickly afterwards that they probably look pretty ridiculous and thats why their girlfriend hasn't been returning their phone calls lol. Either way I don't believe that people coloring their hair wacky colors will ultimately cause any sort of significant and lasting cultural change so it is a fad.

Popular Culture Tour Voicethread

Hey there. Here is my Voicethread of my popular culture tour. I chose 4 types of popular culture Genres, hope you like it :) https://voicethread.com/share/3398704/"

Gamifying Education

   It was my senior year in High School. I'm walking to my first period English class. As I round the last corner to the hallway, it hits me. I have totally forgotten to write my essay due today. There is no viable excuse that I can come up with for this blunder, and I am going to fail this class. My thoughts race as panic set in. I walk into the classrom dejected and sit down at my seat. I look up on the board and there it is, my saving grace. The due date of the assignment has been moved to the next day. Whew!, that was a close one. Anyone else ever have a similar situation? Well here is the great news, those kinds of days are over because the future of education is here. The future of education is Gamifying education.

   Gamifying education is a fantastic alternative to the somewhat disheartening current teaching styles in education. Setting up and applying education as a game has many great and unique benifts. The switch of watching my grade rise with every completed assignment, instead of fall is very emotionally fulfilling as well as intelectually rewarding. It gives me a real sense of accomplishment and belief in myself to know that if I put in the effort my grades will reflect it, and I can make my grades rise as high as I want them to. It essentially puts all of the control into the students hands, my hands. We as students can also clearly see what assignments to do next in order to reach the next level and that makes it of  fun as well. Though more confidence is gained with each passed level, we also find that when a certain level is not achieved, it is not discouraging. It simply involves trying the level again and finding an alternative way to pass it. This builds courage and determination to not be detered by any failure but to find a way around the problem to reach the intended goal. With this, critical thinking skills have to become more developed, there is simply no way for them not to be. Also having the option of rewards for doing more that the status quo of required work, is another great way for the building of and application of a critical thinking skills.

   The greatest asset and benefit to this education style is the group communication. My grade benefiting for helping a classmate and vice versa is a great way to build team work and create an atmosphere of idea sharing. If I have a strong background in one area, but I am weak in others. I still have the opportunites to gain useful insights and help from my fellow classmates, and if needed, them from me. We all become a collective body of individuals with a common goal. This is powerful, as well as really unique in this "me generation" we currently live in. I think that I will love this class because frankly, I already do. And since I love it, I know that my mind will be more open to learning more, yet another positive benifit in the category of Gamifying education.

check out my chogger comic I made

http://chogger.com/comics/aC5To/the-progression-of-great-thinkers    Please lemme know what you guys think :-)

Roost sucks, Rocks hurt, But 2 seconds of Flight is Freedom

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y1fQQCfNJCo

   This video was taken with my Gopro Helmet Camera last year. About 2 weeks later, I had a major crash while practicing for an upcoming race at this very same track. I was apparently knocked unconscious and unresponsive for over 2 minutes. By the time the track's EMT got to me,(he told me later on that) my pupils were unreactive to light and that I had possible(apparent) Agonal respirations (being an EMT myself, I've had the training to understand that these are very bad signs.) He was most concerned though, and very upset when, after being loaded into the ambulance(at this point conscious again), I decided to refuse transport to the hospital, unstrapped myself from the spine board, left the back of the ambulance, and then ultimately proceded to drive myself home. The Track's owner threatened to ban me from riding the track for life when I did, but his threats didn't deter me. In hind sight, it was very reckless both for myself and the public around me, to take the risk of driving home with a possible major head injury(I did seek medical attention the next morning when my signs and symptoms worsened.) I suppose we all have to live and learn our own lessons in life, sometimes the hard way. A facial bone fracture(Handlebars to the goggles), fractured ribs, abbrasions, lacerations, a bruised body, and a bruised ego later, and I'm still here living this awesome life!

   I met this band AWOLNATION (that I used the music for this video), when a friend of mine and his Band opened a show for them at the Marquee Theater in Tempe, Az. It was one of the greatest live shows I have ever been to. The energy was palpable, intense, and electric. I could tell that the band truly lives by the music that they write. Lyrically speaking, the entire song strikes a chord with me on a deep level. The Lyrics inspire me that no matter what happens in this life, even the things that may not go the way I want or wish they would go.That I owe it to myself, those who preceded me, and those who will bury me, to live my life to the fullest and to the greatest potential that I can. So that on that unknown date, when it comes for me, that I leave this beautiful, wonderful, sometimes crazy place with no regrets at all.                          



(no copyright infringement intended or implied for music used in this personal video, and I have no affiliation with the band AWOLNATION)
  

GOOGLE is sketchy at best

   Does anyone else find it weird that Google wants so much personal information from us? A cell phone number to sign up for a blog, really? like when Google's girlfriend breaks up with them they can call me in the wee hours of the morning just to have a friendly chat? bend my ear about heart break and that jerk Yahoo who stole his chick. How when she left facebook for him, that he thought she was a changed person, and would never leave him. No way, cause Google is the go to guy right?, Always has all of the answers?

   Get real! that, coinciding with every link I click on, every new page that I'm sent to once inside, practically forces me to sign up for google+,  makes me start to think that maybe google's ex has it right, and leaving that dude was the right move. Besides all of this "needed" info they require from me, for seemingly obscure "security" reasons, I don't really have time to think of clever quip's to impress my "friends"(some I've never actually met in person) and stroke my own ego, everytime I have a free minute in my day. If I had a turkey or a ham sandwich for lunch, it should be between my digestive system and I,  and of no consequence to anyone else. Though obviously my mentality about social media may change within this current semester. and who knows?, maybe after all of this is done. I may just rejoin the herd.